The New Mexico
Marriages First Project.
The Greatest of things grow from the smallest of seeds


The Road to Enlightenment

 




The Impact of Divorce



The impact of divorce is obvious and enormous. Not only is it devastating to couples, but it is particularly destructive to children.


This is especially true for the the little ones who can't understand what's happening, and who's tiny hearts break so easily. They are so used to reaching up to their mommy and daddy for strength, support, as well as nurturing love and comfort. This often disappears during the battles of divorce and the children's hearts end up devastated and broken.


Children of divorced parents are twice as likely to drop out of school, three times as apt to have a baby out of wedlock and twelve times as likely to be incarcerated than those from intact homes.


Sadly, the reported divorce rate in New Mexico is nearly double that of the national rate, with only four states reporting higher divorce figures. The good news is that research shows that relationship skills can be learned. Once learned, these skills can facilitate communication between marriage partners, helping them to avoid conflict and reducing domestic violence, child abuse, divorce and its impacts.


New Mexico Marriages First
promotes and delivers the skills and education needed to help all couples put marriage first. Through partnerships with community agencies, New Mexico Marriages First will help interested couples gain greater access to marriage education services – enabling them to acquire skills to form and sustain healthy marriages.

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